- Budgeting
- Cash Management
- Consumer and Mortgage Loans
- Debt and Debt Reduction
- Time Value of Money 1: Present and Future Value
- Time Value of Money 2: Inflation, Real Returns, Annuities, and Amortized Loans
- Insurance 1: Basics
- Insurance 2: Life Insurance
- Insurance 3: Health, Long-term Care, and Disability Insurance
- Insurance 4: Auto, Homeowners, and Liability Insurance
- The Home Decision
- The Auto Decision
- Family 1: Money and Marriage
- Introduction
- Ten Key Principles of Money and Marriage
- 1. The family is ordained of God
- 2. Your spouse has first priority
- 3. Marriage partners are equal
- 4. Marriage partners should seek the “best interests” of the family.”
- 5. Financial problems are usually behavioral problems, not money problems
- 6. Change is necessary to improve.
- 7. Money spent on things you value leads to satisfaction and accomplishment.
- 8. Financial freedom is more the result of decreased spending than increased income
- 9. Spouses are to leave their parents and become one
- 10. The best things in life require no money
- Understand Why Money May be an Issue in Marriage
- Recommendations for Money and Marriage
- Summary
- Assignments
- Family 2: Teaching Children Financial Responsibility
- Family 3: Financing Children’s Education and Missions
- Investments A: Key Lessons of Investing
- Investments B: Key Lessons of Investing
6. Change is necessary to improve.
Change is critical if you are to improve. Some have said:
If you always do what you have done, you will always get what you have always got! (Anonymous)
For whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap. (Galatians 6:7 )
I counter with:
If you continue to spend instead of save, you will continue living from paycheck to paycheck.
If you continue to borrow to support a lifestyle you cannot afford, you will continue to sink further and further into debt.
If you continue to save and invest wisely, you will likely continue to achieve your personal and family goals. Despite challenges and setbacks that will inevitably occur, there is peace in knowing we are doing the best we can do—which should be a key personal and family goal. In other words, some personal and family goals are best measured by our efforts (which we can control), rather than the outcome (which we often cannot control).
Elder Robert D. Hales said:
If the example we have received from our parents was not good, it is our responsibility to break the cycle. Certainly parents will make mistakes in the parenting process, but through humility, faith, prayer, and study, each person can learn a better way and in so doing bless the lives of family members now and teach correct traditions for the generations that follow. The Lord’s promises are sure: “I will instruct thee and teach thee in the way which thou shalt go” (Ps. 32:8). And again: “Whatsoever ye shall ask the Father in my name, which is right, believing that ye shall receive, behold it shall be given unto you” (3 Ne. 18:20). (Robert D. Hales, “How Will Our Children Remember Us? Ensign, Nov. 1993, 10).
We must be willing to change if we are to make progress in becoming better financial stewards.