Court your beau with finesse
Want to add some spice to your
life? The following courting gestures will groom you in wooing your partner with
elan.
The man of the moment:
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Performs preening actions
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His torso becomes erect
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Hands try to undo crinkled creases
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Straightens his tie
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Pulls up his socks, checks his nails
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Thrusts chin upward and forward
You need not be a femme fatale to
entice your man. Sending the right body signals will add oomph and oeuvre to
your persona. So go ahead and
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Arrange your hair
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Smoothen your dress
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Touch up you make up by adding dash of lipstick,
powdering your nose… the list could go on.
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Sit with one leg tucked away, sending the message, ‘‘you
make me feel at ease.''
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Slowly cross and uncross your legs
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Gaze directly at your man
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Caress the inside of you calf or knees, sending the
message that you are ready for a tête-à-tête.
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Delicately balance your shoe on the toe of one of your
feet indicating how comfortable you are in your partner's presence.
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Strike an ‘'I am interested in you,'' pose. Expressing
Expectations
Expressions are an integral part
of every relationship. You could do well to remember that if you expect
something you have to express it. You cannot take others for granted. Your
expectations might remain unfulfilled unless you make them explicit by way of
non-verbal leakage too.
Expectancy gestures
include.
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Rubbing the thumb and index finger together shows that
you expect money.
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Rubbing the palms together signals that you anticipate
something, e.g. getting a contract or a good meal.
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Rubbing a wet palm against a fabric communicates
nervousness.
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Crossing of the fingers is a sign of expecting result.
