FREE online courses on Building Self Confidence
-To be confident you need to
1.
Be happy
It's a fact that your being happy does make the world look
better. Our approach towards life and its events makes us happy or unhappy. The
more we expect out of life, the more it gets harder to be happy. An optimist
sees the glass as half-full where as a pessimist would look at it half-empty.
2.
Speak positive
Life always has something worth to offer. Prefer speaking
about your likes rather than dislikes. Instead of rejecting a things, some
option could be given for it. Moaning mars your personality.
3.
Set your goals
You need to build your standards for personal success. No one
is good at everything just like no one is bad at everything. Instead of
comparing your achievements with others you could accept your limitations and
work strongly on your strengths.
4.
Assess Yourself
Self-assessment is a valuable tool if it is earnest. You
could always get yourself assessed by people you think know you well. Your lack
of confidence will infuse you to expect negative reactions from people. Start
thinking and saying to yourself.
“I'm sure people will appreciate
me”.
“I'm sure to answer well at the
interview”.
“I know I'll be able to convince”.
“I know the event will go well”.
5.
Take Your Decisions
Be sure of what you choose, be it the clothes you wear, the
food you eat, the job you've opted for. Dare to be different and let other look
up to your style and manners.
6.
Interact with people
A shy person lacks the confidence to communicate with others.
Try to be the life and soul of a party by talking being lively with a good sense
of humour. It is better to be pleasant and easy going to get along well with
people.
People with these qualities are successful in business. Being
confident you help your own self as well as those you work for. Such people are
respected and looked up to for inspiration.
